Domestic violence affects not only adults but also children who witness or experience it. The effects can be severe — emotionally, psychologically, and physically.
In Queensland, addressing domestic and family violence is a legal and social priority. Laws and support systems are in place to protect victims and ensure children’s safety. For parents, understanding how violence impacts children — and the legal options to safeguard them — is vital.
Family lawyers play a key role in helping parents apply for Domestic Violence Orders (DVOs), navigate custody and parenting matters, and advocate for safe arrangements that prioritise the welfare of children.
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Understanding the Impact of Domestic Violence on a Child
Domestic violence includes physical, emotional, psychological, sexual, and financial abuse. Children exposed to this behaviour — even if not directly harmed — can experience serious long-term effects.
Effects on Children
Psychological: Anxiety, depression, trauma responses, and ongoing mental health struggles.
Emotional: Fear, guilt, low self-esteem, and difficulty forming trust.
Physical: Sleep problems, health complaints, and developmental delays.
Long-Term Consequences
Behavioural: Aggression, withdrawal, or difficulty maintaining relationships.
Intergenerational Impact: Children may view violence as normal and replicate similar behaviour later in life.
Academic: Poor school attendance, learning difficulties, or declining performance.
Early intervention is critical to prevent these effects from escalating.
Domestic Violence and Child Custody in Queensland
Under the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) and the Domestic and Family Violence Protection Act 2012 (Qld), a child’s safety and well-being are paramount.
When domestic violence is involved, courts assess:
Risk to the child or non-offending parent.
The child’s physical, emotional, and psychological safety.
Each parent’s capacity to provide a safe environment.
If there is an ongoing risk, the court may issue or uphold:
Domestic Violence Orders (DVOs) restricting contact between the perpetrator and family members.
Supervised visitation for the perpetrator.
Temporary or permanent adjustments to parenting or custody arrangements.
The Queensland Police Service and Department of Child Safety work together to ensure children are protected from further harm.
Recognising When a Child Is Impacted by Domestic Violence
Children may not verbalise their experiences, but behavioural and emotional cues can reveal distress.
Key warning signs include:
Heightened fear, anxiety, or clinginess.
Sudden aggression or anger outbursts.
Withdrawal from social or school activities.
Sleep problems, nightmares, or bedwetting.
Physical complaints like headaches or stomach aches without medical cause.
Trouble trusting others or forming relationships.
Recognising these signs early allows parents and professionals to intervene before long-term harm occurs.
Parental Responsibilities and Legal Rights
Parents in Queensland have a legal duty to protect their children from harm, including exposure to family violence.
Courts consider failure to act as a serious concern and can intervene through child safety services or court orders if necessary.
A Domestic Violence Protection Order (DVO) is one of the key legal mechanisms to ensure safety. It can:
Prohibit the perpetrator from contacting or approaching the victim or child.
Set specific conditions to prevent further harm.
Support other legal processes such as custody or parenting arrangements.
Family lawyers can assist in preparing and filing DVO applications, and in addressing parenting orders to ensure the child’s safety remains central.
Support Services for Families in Queensland
Families impacted by domestic violence can access both legal and emotional support across Queensland:
DVConnect: 24/7 crisis support and emergency accommodation.
Phone: 1800 811 811 (Women’s Line) | 1800 600 636 (Men’s Line)
Queensland Police Service: Call 000 in emergencies or 131 444 for non-urgent help.
Relationships Australia QLD: Counselling and family support — 1300 364 277.
Lifeline: 24-hour crisis line — 13 11 14.
Legal Aid Queensland: Free or low-cost legal advice — 1300 65 11 88.
Child Safety Services: 1800 177 135 for children at risk of harm.
Practical Steps for Parents to Help Children Recover
Helping children heal from the trauma of domestic violence involves practical care and emotional support.
Create a safe, stable home: Keep routines consistent and eliminate all exposure to violence.
Encourage open communication: Let your child express feelings freely without judgment.
Seek professional counselling: Trauma-informed psychologists or counsellors can guide recovery.
Promote healthy emotional outlets: Activities like play, drawing, or sports help release stress.
Build a strong support network: Engage trusted friends and relatives to reinforce safety.
Model respect and empathy: Demonstrating non-violent conflict resolution helps break the cycle.
Focus on health and routine: Balanced nutrition, rest, and regular activity support recovery.
How Family Lawyers Can Help
Family lawyers provide essential legal support for victims of domestic violence and their children. They can:
Advise on your legal rights and options under Queensland and Commonwealth law.
Assist with DVO applications and evidence preparation.
Represent you in court proceedings for protection and custody.
Ensure parenting orders or custody arrangements prioritise child safety.
Legal representation can make the process less intimidating and help protect your child’s future.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is considered domestic violence under Queensland law?
Domestic violence includes physical, emotional, psychological, sexual and financial abuse, as well as coercive or controlling behaviour that causes fear or harm.
Can domestic violence affect child custody?
Yes. The court prioritises the safety of children and may limit or supervise contact with a violent parent.
Can a parent lose custody for committing domestic violence?
Yes. If the court finds the child is at risk, custody or visitation may be suspended or strictly supervised.
What should I do if I suspect my child is affected by domestic violence?
Seek immediate support from police, DVConnect, Legal Aid, or a family lawyer. Acting early protects both the parent and child.
What is a Domestic Violence Protection Order (DVO)?
A DVO is a legally enforceable order designed to prevent future abuse and protect victims from harm.
Final Thoughts
Domestic violence leaves deep and lasting impacts on children. Recognising warning signs and taking swift legal and emotional action is essential to protect their well-being.
Queensland’s legal framework provides clear pathways for protection through Domestic Violence Orders and parenting orders that centre the child’s best interests.
If you or your child are affected by domestic violence, reach out for help today. Family lawyers, support services, and government agencies can help you take the steps needed to ensure safety and stability.
Official Information Sources
Queensland Law Handbook – Domestic and Family Violence & Parenting Arrangements
https://queenslandlawhandbook.org.au/Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (FCFCOA) – Family Violence and the Law
https://www.fcfcoa.gov.au/Legal Aid Queensland – Domestic and Family Violence Support and Protection Orders
https://www.legalaid.qld.gov.au/Queensland Government – Families and Legal Information
https://www.qld.gov.au/families/legalFamily Relationships – Family Violence and Parenting Support
https://www.familyrelationships.gov.au/Queensland Law Society – Legal Help for Family Violence Matters
https://www.qls.com.au/
