Domestic violence affects not only adults but also children who witness or experience it. The effects can be severe — emotionally, psychologically, and physically.
In Queensland, addressing domestic and family violence is a legal and social priority. Laws and support systems are in place to protect victims and ensure children’s safety. For parents, understanding how violence impacts children — and the legal options to safeguard them — is vital.
Family lawyers play a key role in helping parents apply for Domestic Violence Orders (DVOs), navigate custody and parenting matters, and advocate for safe arrangements that prioritise the welfare of children.
Please note: This is general information only and not legal advice — please contact VM Family Law for accurate, tailored advice. Our full contact details can be found here: www.vmfamilylaw.com.au/contact
Understanding the Impact of Domestic Violence on a Child
Domestic violence includes physical abuse, emotional abuse, psychological abuse, sexual abuse, and financial abuse. Children exposed to this behaviour — even if not directly harmed — can experience serious long-term effects.
Effects on Children
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Psychological: Anxiety, depression, trauma responses, and ongoing mental health struggles.
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Emotional: Fear, guilt, low self-esteem, and difficulty forming trust.
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Physical: Sleep problems, health complaints, and developmental delays.
Long-Term Consequences
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Behavioural: Aggression, withdrawal, or difficulty maintaining relationships.
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Intergenerational Impact: Children may view violence as normal and replicate similar behaviour later in life.
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Academic: Poor school attendance, learning difficulties, or declining performance.
Early intervention is critical to prevent these effects from escalating.
Domestic Violence and Child Custody in Queensland
Under the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) and the Domestic and Family Violence Protection Act 2012 (Qld), a child’s safety and well-being are paramount.
When domestic violence is involved, courts assess:
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Risk to the child or non-offending parent.
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The child’s physical, emotional, and psychological safety.
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Each parent’s capacity to provide a safe environment.
If there is an ongoing risk, the court may issue or uphold:
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Domestic Violence Orders (DVOs) restricting contact between the perpetrator and family members.
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Supervised visitation for the perpetrator.
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Temporary or permanent adjustments to parenting or custody arrangements.
The Queensland Police Service and Department of Child Safety work together to ensure children are protected from further harm.
Recognising When a Child Is Impacted by Domestic Violence
Children may not verbalise their experiences, but behavioural and emotional cues can reveal distress. Key warning signs include:
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Heightened fear, anxiety, or clinginess.
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Sudden aggression or anger outbursts.
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Withdrawal from social or school activities.
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Sleep problems, nightmares, or bedwetting.
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Physical complaints like headaches or stomach aches without medical cause.
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Trouble trusting others or forming relationships.
Recognising these signs early allows parents and professionals to intervene before long-term harm occurs.
Parental Responsibilities and Legal Rights
Parents in Queensland have a legal duty to protect their children from harm, including exposure to family violence. Courts consider failure to act as a serious concern and can intervene through child safety services or court orders if necessary.
A Domestic Violence Order (DVO) is one of the key legal mechanisms to ensure safety. It can:
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Prohibit the perpetrator from contacting or approaching the victim or child.
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Set specific conditions to prevent further harm.
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Support other legal processes such as custody or parenting arrangements.
Family lawyers can assist in preparing and filing DVO applications, and in addressing parenting orders to ensure the child’s safety remains central.
Support Services for Families in Queensland
Families impacted by domestic violence can access both legal and emotional support across Queensland:
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DVConnect: 24/7 crisis support and emergency accommodation.
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Phone: 1800 811 811 (Women’s Line) | 1800 600 636 (Men’s Line)
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Queensland Police Service: Call 000 in emergencies or 131 444 for non-urgent help.
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Relationships Australia QLD: Counselling and family support — 1300 364 277.
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Lifeline: 24-hour crisis line — 13 11 14.
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Legal Aid Queensland: Free or low-cost legal advice — 1300 65 11 88.
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Child Safety Services: 1800 177 135 for children at risk of harm.
Practical Steps for Parents to Help Children Recover
Helping children heal from the trauma of domestic violence involves practical care and emotional support.
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Create a safe, stable home: Keep routines consistent and eliminate all exposure to violence.
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Encourage open communication: Let your child express feelings freely without judgment.
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Seek professional counselling: Trauma-informed psychologists or counsellors can guide recovery.
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Promote healthy emotional outlets: Activities like play, drawing, or sports help release stress.
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Build a strong support network: Engage trusted friends and relatives to reinforce safety.
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Model respect and empathy: Demonstrating non-violent conflict resolution helps break the cycle.
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Focus on health and routine: Balanced nutrition, rest, and regular activity support recovery.
How Family Lawyers Can Help
Family lawyers provide essential legal support for victims of domestic violence and their children. They can:
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Advise on your legal rights and options under Queensland and Commonwealth law.
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Assist with DVO applications and evidence preparation.
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Represent you in court proceedings for protection and custody.
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Ensure parenting orders or custody arrangements prioritise child safety.
Legal representation can make the process less intimidating and help protect your child’s future.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
How does domestic violence affect children in Queensland?
Exposure to domestic violence can cause serious emotional, behavioural, and developmental harm to children. In Queensland, the law recognises children as victims of domestic violence even if they are not physically harmed but witness abuse, live in a hostile environment, or are otherwise affected by family violence.
Is witnessing domestic violence considered child abuse in Queensland?
Yes. Under the Domestic and Family Violence Protection Act 2012 (Qld), exposing a child to domestic violence—such as seeing or hearing abuse—is recognised as a form of emotional or psychological harm and may be considered child abuse under Queensland’s child protection laws.
Can domestic violence affect parenting orders in Queensland?
Absolutely. The Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) prioritises the child’s best interests, including protection from harm. If family violence is present, the court may limit or restrict parental contact, grant sole parental responsibility, or impose conditions to ensure the child’s safety.
What are the long-term impacts of domestic violence on children?
Children exposed to domestic violence may suffer from anxiety, depression, aggression, sleep issues, poor academic performance, and difficulty forming healthy relationships later in life. Early legal and psychological intervention can help reduce these long-term effects.
Can I get a Domestic Violence Order (DVO) to protect my child in Queensland?
Yes. You can apply for a DVO that includes your children as named persons to protect them from exposure to domestic violence. The court can impose conditions to prevent contact or proximity between the abuser and the child if it’s deemed necessary for safety.
What should I do if I suspect a child is exposed to domestic violence?
If a child is at immediate risk, call 000. Otherwise, you can contact Child Safety Services (Department of Children, Youth Justice and Multicultural Affairs) or speak to a family lawyer for legal advice on protective steps such as applying for a DVO or initiating parenting proceedings.
How can a family lawyer help when children are affected by domestic violence?
A family lawyer can help by applying for protective orders, advising on child custody arrangements, initiating family court applications, and ensuring your child’s safety and well-being are prioritised. They can also connect you with support services and dispute resolution options.
Take the First Step Toward Safety and Stability
At VM Family Law, we understand how deeply domestic violence can impact children and families. Our compassionate team is here to support you with clear legal advice and strong advocacy when it matters most. Whether you need help applying for a Domestic Violence Order, negotiating parenting arrangements, securing child support, or resolving disputes through family law mediation or family dispute resolution, we’ll stand by you every step of the way.
Protecting your child’s well-being starts with informed action. Contact VM Family Law today on 07 3447 8966 or visit www.vmfamilylaw.com.au to speak with a family lawyer who genuinely cares. Your child’s safety and future are worth protecting — and we’re here to help you do just that.
Official Information Sources
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Queensland Law Handbook – Domestic and Family Violence & Parenting Arrangements
https://queenslandlawhandbook.org.au/ -
Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (FCFCOA) – Family Violence and the Law
https://www.fcfcoa.gov.au/ -
Legal Aid Queensland – Domestic and Family Violence Support and Protection Orders
https://www.legalaid.qld.gov.au/ -
Queensland Government – Families and Legal Information
https://www.qld.gov.au/families/legal -
Family Relationships – Family Violence and Parenting Support
https://www.familyrelationships.gov.au/ -
Queensland Law Society – Legal Help for Family Violence Matters
https://www.qls.com.au/
